The Daily Struggle of an ADHD Brain and Productivity
If you have ADHD, you already know—the battle between your brain and a to-do list is brutal. You sit down, determined to tackle your tasks, but suddenly, you remember you need to check your email. Then you’re deep in a Wikipedia rabbit hole about the history of forks. An hour later, the list is still untouched, and you’re wondering where the time went.
Trust me, I’ve been there. Every. Single. Day.
For years, I thought I was just lazy. I’d write out my to-do lists with the best intentions, only to abandon them when my brain refused to cooperate. The guilt of unfinished tasks would pile up, making productivity feel impossible. But here’s the good news: I’ve found ways to work with my ADHD brain instead of fighting against it—and today, I’m sharing what actually helps.

Why ADHD Makes Sticking to a To-Do List So Hard
ADHD impacts executive function, which means:
- Planning and organizing tasks can feel overwhelming.
- Prioritizing what’s most important is a challenge.
- Following through on boring or repetitive tasks feels impossible.
- Our brains crave dopamine, making distractions more tempting than actual work.
The good news? There are real, practical strategies to make to-do lists work for you instead of against you. Let’s break it down.
ADHD-Friendly To-Do List Hacks That Actually Work
After years of trial and error, these are the game-changers that finally helped me get things done.
1. Use the “Top Three” Method
Instead of writing out a long list that feels overwhelming, pick just three must-do tasks for the day. Once those are done, you can add more. This keeps things manageable and prevents decision paralysis.
2. Make It Visual and Fun
A boring list? No thanks. Try:
- Color-coding tasks (red for urgent, blue for creative, green for admin).
- Using sticky notes or whiteboards for flexibility.
- Breaking tasks into mini-steps to make them feel less daunting.
3. Time Block Like a Boss
Instead of just listing tasks, schedule them into your day. Use alarms or timers to remind yourself when it’s time to switch tasks. I swear by the Pomodoro technique (work for 25 minutes, then take a 5-minute break).
4. Gamify Your Productivity
Turning tasks into a game can make them dopamine-friendly for an ADHD brain:
- Give yourself points for each completed task.
- Set a reward system (e.g., “Finish this, then I can watch Netflix”).
- Use an app like Habitica to track progress in a fun way.
5. Externalize Your Memory
Relying on your brain alone? A recipe for disaster. Use tools like:
- Google Calendar for reminders.
- Trello or Notion for organizing tasks visually.
- A simple notebook if digital doesn’t work for you.

Recap: 5 Key Takeaways
- ADHD makes traditional to-do lists overwhelming—but there are better ways.
- Keep it simple with the “Top Three” method to avoid feeling stuck.
- Time blocking and the Pomodoro technique help maintain focus.
- Gamification tricks your brain into staying engaged.
- Use external tools (apps, calendars, whiteboards) to support your memory.
FAQ: ADHD and Productivity
Q. What’s the best type of to-do list for ADHD?
A. One that’s flexible, visual, and broken down into small steps. Rigid lists can feel overwhelming, so experiment with formats that feel good to you.
Q. How do I stay motivated when tasks feel boring?
A. Pair boring tasks with dopamine triggers—listen to music, work in a different environment, or use a timer to create urgency.
Q. What’s the biggest mistake people with ADHD make with to-do lists?
A. Writing down too many tasks and not prioritizing. Keep it short and focus on what truly matters.
Q. How do I stop getting distracted?
A. Use physical reminders (like alarms), keep your workspace minimal to reduce visual clutter, and set clear time limits for tasks.
Q. Should I use digital or paper lists?
A. Whatever works for you! Some ADHD brains love apps, while others do better with a physical planner. Try both and see what sticks.

Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone in This
If you’ve been beating yourself up over sotruggling with to-do lists, please stop. ADHD makes productivity different—not impossible. You just need the right tools and strategies.
I’m not a mental health professional, but I’ve lived this struggle daily. And while I still have tough days, these strategies have helped me take control of my productivity instead of letting ADHD control me.
What about you? What’s worked for your ADHD brain? Let’s chat in the comments—I’d love to hear your tips!
Much love. Good vibes. – Ky

Thank you! made me feel a lot better for my ” free ” day tomorrow….20 plans , now reduced to the three most important! I´ll get them done!
You need to look into the Eisenhower Matrix. It is fantastic for deciding the priority and value of your to-do’s.